Authority is key to being influential and leaving a legacy. There is a curious relationship between personal depth and authority. It’s subtle at times, but quite real, and we seemed wired to detect it. Deeper people exude authority that others can sense. They’re far less intimidated by pseudo-authority figures and bullies. You strengthen your authority level every time you resist bad impulses and foolish habits.
Shallow people must fake authority, or leverage the authority of others. It’s notable that Jesus is described as teaching with authority, unlike their local law teachers (see Matthew 7:29).
Authority flows from competence, character, and communication skill. Competence comes from study and practice in a discipline. Nobel Prize winners are often asked their views on subjects far from their discipline. I think it’s silly to get more than an opinion about economics from a prize-winning chemist, but hey, they’re smart and are perceived to be an authority.
Personal authority is reinforced through the demonstration of strong character. Honesty, reliability, and consistency are vital components of building trust with others. People with personal authority take responsibility for their actions, admit mistakes, and show integrity in their dealings. By cultivating strong moral principles and treating others with respect, deep people establish themselves as reliable and trustworthy leaders.
Effective communication plays a crucial role in increasing personal authority. Communication is a lifelong craft, which is why shallow people are usually poor communicators. Expressing ideas clearly, actively listening to others, and demonstrating empathy fosters positive relationships and encourages others to value and respect your ideas. Additionally, displaying confidence in one’s opinions while remaining open to constructive feedback allows for a balanced and persuasive communication style that enhances your personal authority.
False authority lacks at least one of these three: competence, character, communication. I’m sure you can recall horrific authority figures who were impressive communicators but lacked character or competence.
… Don’t focus on your personal authority. Focus on building skills, being honorable, and the lifelong craft of communicating clearly. There are opportunities every day for these.
