“I am not giving dating advice”

I am not giving dating advice.

I am not giving dating advice.

I am not giving dating advice.

I am not giving dating advice.

But I will say this…

People often focus their energy this way: “I want to be with someone.  I’m ready to be with someone.  I just have to find them.” Instead of spending all your energy and focus on that mindset, devote yourself to becoming a better person – taking care of yourself, developing competence, pursuing things that interest you, practicing self-control.  That is the path to becoming an interesting person, and far more likely to find someone who is a meaningful match.

It’s the same with friends and good neighbors.